I work in a hotel and we get theses big groups in house, keep in mind
that we are a hotel we sell sleep so our bar closes normally at 12 a.m
but sometimes we will stay open later. This last group had a lady say
to the person next to her “what kind of bar closes at 1:30” standing
right in front of her I start to explain to her that in California we
close at this time in the whole state( which leads me to think she is
from NY) so as i start in, she says “I am not talking to you” very
rude. Let me paint a picture brunette lady at about 300 to 350 pounds
with a sleeveless dress. Not to be rude myself but what huge fat ass
lady wears a dress with no sleeves, just finished sucking down one of
my fantastic manhattans has the courage to be rude to the guy with
booze behind him. go fuck yourself you beached whale, loose some
weight then be a bitch. And while your at it pull the I am better than
everyone stick out of your ass.


  • Karen P

    April 3, 2012

    Why do they always want to piss off the person in charge of the alcohol when they are trying to break the rules?

  • Pierre

    April 4, 2012

    so you butted in a private conversation, got called out for it, and this warrants you writing an anti-fat people rant? Who’s the real a-hole here?

  • Darlene

    April 4, 2012

    I don’t see that the woman’s wieght or her choice of clothing had jack to do with whether or not she was rude to you. While I do admit that she could have been more polite when she asked that you not interrupt the conversation of others I don’t think it had anything to do with her size or her dress. Who died and made you the king of all that is allowed in the fashion industry anyway. Don’t like her arms, don’t look.

  • Edward

    April 9, 2012

    I don’t have anything else to add I just wanted to say I completely agree with what Pierre and Darlene said.

  • Tom

    April 11, 2012

    I’m kind of on the OP’s side here, but let me explain. I see this as him venting. Rudeness is always uncalled for, and after reading the OP’s post, I gather that he didn’t say anything to the woman after her outburst. He remained professional, and went about his business. Inside he was fuming as any normal human would be. He lashed out at the easiest thing he could and that was her considerable size. I give him a pass because I’d rather someone in the service industry vent after the fact than to a customer’s face. If we weren’t able to complain about these people behind their backs, we’d all go insane.

  • Trousle Undrhil

    April 18, 2012

    While I agree that her size shouldn’t come into play here, I have to laugh at the fact that she is calling into question why the bar is closing “early” and then she is rude when he attempts to answer that question. Whether the answer was aimed at him or not, it was *about* him (or his service, his job, etc.) which means he should be able to respond to it.

    You go stand in line with a friend and talk about someone else’s clothing and see if they don’t respond to that.

  • Christianne

    April 19, 2012

    her size has nothing to do with this, youre the jerk here.

  • Michael Carpenter

    May 3, 2012

    While it’s never easy to put up with rudeness please remember all the great people you serve. The bottom line is, happiness is a choice. Others can not control your reactions to situations, only you are capable of becoming irritated. It is how you react to the actions of others that determines your mental state. Rise above and prosper.
    *steps off of soap box*
    Or just give it to them straight! Whatever works for you 😉

  • roger doneff

    May 19, 2012

    not the greatest story…I hope they get better than this……..I would rate it a ZERO POINT ZERO HAHA

  • not a fat bitch

    June 2, 2012

    F*CK that fat bitch! This country is full of over sensitive, RUDE, FAT people! Servers are talked down to more than in any other profession. What gives you the right to talk to a server like they are less than you? Most of the rudest guests i have encountered look like a beached whale. It’s not my fault you’re fat! Stop going out to eat and asking your server to bring you a plate of SIX biscuits!!!! YOU FAT ASS!!! Go take your misery out on someone else…or walk in front of a bus. Your choice!

  • pershing,a.c.j

    June 15, 2012

    you shouldn’t have embarassed her. interrupting her conversation to call her ignorant to the ways of the west. you should be happy that’s all that happened after backing her into a corner. she could have been much ruder.

  • it is what it is

    July 1, 2012

    I’m sure everyone that complained about him venting about the beach whale is probably a beach whale themselves. Who gives a damn point was that the fat hitch had the nerve to be rude thinking she had a right to.

  • Rasputin

    September 9, 2013

    OP you probably were PUT in your lousy no good place and NOT tipped that’s why you tried to put down a woman you could ONLY get in your dreams because only DOGS like you want sticks. Real GOOD women don’t want little boys who can’t hold down a REAL job trying to stick their noses where it doesn’t belong. LEARN your place and stay there. OR get a real woman to teach you some manners so you will KNOW when you are spoken to then ONLY can you answer. The stick you suck on needs to teach you a thing or two before you can even THINK about telling a REAL women her place. Rather have curves then look like a boy dating a pedo

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